tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post7660090801949662091..comments2024-03-16T04:12:36.433-05:00Comments on shorties funny farm: ::now days::brookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14423813206656696959noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-80303844584656662402022-01-26T08:29:37.554-06:002022-01-26T08:29:37.554-06:00Thanks for taking the time to discuss this, I feel...Thanks for taking the time to discuss this, I feel strongly about it and love learning more on this topic. If possible, as you gain expertise, would you mind updating your blog with extra information? It is extremely helpful for me. <a href="https://www.yadong.biz" title="야한동영상" rel="nofollow">야한동영상</a><br /><br />Please visit once. I leave my blog address below<br /><a href="https://sites.google.com/view/yadongbiz/" title="야설" rel="nofollow">야설</a><br /><a href="https://anotepad.com/notes/bhe6dxsc" title="야한동영상" rel="nofollow">야한동영상</a><br />yadongbizzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02592460344555477634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-57970110784768687522011-05-26T07:42:28.039-05:002011-05-26T07:42:28.039-05:00It sounds like you need to get out of there for aw...It sounds like you need to get out of there for awhile. You never really got to have much time away from that environment, and that environment holds a different meaning for you now.<br /><br />Before I was a nurse, I had Jake, and he was a very sick NICU baby, close to death. He was a sickly toddler, too. I think I had PTS for a few years after that. I wish I could have gotten counselling, but I was young and I didn't know where to get it and could not afford it anyway. I would always say, "The further behind me it gets, the better I am." <br /><br />I went back to school and became a nurse, and worked for years in Pediatrics. I'm glad I stayed out of the NICU for that time period. I didn't return to NICU until I stopped seeing it as a terrifying and painful place to be.<br /><br />If you do leave, don't look at it as "walking away" (which sounds like abandonment, and promotes guilty feelings), look at it as "walking toward" something that is healthier for you at this time in your life. If you take a break, just know that the NICU will always be there for you to return to.<br /><br />Hugs to you. I only want what's best for you.<br />If you are fried, do whatever it takes to heal.Connie Nobbehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16367762090303903057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-10343281304931310842011-05-23T09:13:57.451-05:002011-05-23T09:13:57.451-05:00As red head says, you have to do what is right for...As red head says, you have to do what is right for you, but hearing her story and the stories you tell, you are an important part of NICU. They need someone like you who have the compassion for both the babies and the families. You are a truth teller and we need truth tellers. <br />It is hard to relive what has happened, I know even though my loss came at a much earlier point in the pregnancy (I have had three losses, very early). The last one came on 4th of July and I still after three years get somewhat moody and sad around that time. <br />Do what is best for you, what makes you feel better. You can always come back at a later time.Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17381769872774843265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-1440895676699213332011-05-23T08:23:07.996-05:002011-05-23T08:23:07.996-05:00I understand why you would feel that way. I really...I understand why you would feel that way. I really do.<br /><br />But that NICU will lose one of it's most valuable nurses if you walk away. you not only care for the babies, you care for the family. I have experienced your care and compassion and there is no telling where I would be today if you hadn't stepped in just at the right moment (both the day Joshua died, and again with the amazing email you sent to me about that morning.)<br /><br />Do what your heart tells you. I know you will make the right decision.Jill https://www.blogger.com/profile/05480998926938144262noreply@blogger.com