tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post3340143996179313545..comments2024-03-16T04:12:36.433-05:00Comments on shorties funny farm: ::team lead:brookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14423813206656696959noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-79811905771756646282011-04-08T21:46:02.387-05:002011-04-08T21:46:02.387-05:00Brookie, So glad you did TL. I'm sure you did...Brookie, So glad you did TL. I'm sure you did great. I'm glad you had some time alone in the car and unloaded a bit, but my heart breaks when I imagine you that shredded. Hugs and love to you my friend.Connie Nobbehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16367762090303903057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-31974645457089037412011-04-07T13:10:36.111-05:002011-04-07T13:10:36.111-05:00I've have been reading your blog for a while n...I've have been reading your blog for a while now but have never left a comment. Now I feel a little compelled to post. First, time does heal, but time is SLOW, and for you to have been through what you have, I have to say I'm inspired, because of how strong you are! With time, things will get better, I don't think anyone will ever heal completely from what you have been through, but you will get better slowly with time. Secondly as a nurse myself, in labor and delivery, these situations where someone experiences a loss, it tests us, and we hurt for them. The fact that you made it through the day is a testament to how strong you really are. If you did not cry at all, or feel pain, for their loss, then I would say it's time for a new profession. I don't think I can say anything that will really make you feel better, but I had to post to tell you how inspiring you are!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12615755580727154339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-6952744255914642272011-04-07T07:53:14.841-05:002011-04-07T07:53:14.841-05:00ugh....I'm sorry....I'm sorry that any mom...ugh....I'm sorry....I'm sorry that any mommy has to go through what you and I have gone through...babies aren't supposed to die before their mommies....it's not fair...<br /><br />I give you credit...i don't think i could do it...I couldn't watch other mothers start on the journey that you and i have gone through....i know all too well what's ahead for that mother, and it's not a fun journey...<br /><br />But you, my dear, are (in my opinion) just the person for the job. You were a calm and rational voice in the midst of my storm with Joshua. (and the email that you sent a few months later brought more healing than you will ever know) Your experience with Zack will make you that much more compassionate. It may be too soon right now, but you will get there....and once you have arrived, you will be beyond compassionate and loving to the parents who have just experienced the worst day of their lives. <br /><br />Even though you never cared for Joshua, I know you are a great nurse.Jill https://www.blogger.com/profile/05480998926938144262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1453166159054057451.post-52610358054111210862011-04-07T00:15:13.792-05:002011-04-07T00:15:13.792-05:00You have to allow yourself to grieve, to cry, to l...You have to allow yourself to grieve, to cry, to let go. I think you did great, when you no longer could handle it, you left the room, got a hold on yourself and finished your job. Then later you let yourself cry. That is good. You are getting better. Don't beat yourself up for showing grief, but celebrate the little victories like being the TL today and being able to finish your job even though it was hard. Love to you.Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17381769872774843265noreply@blogger.com